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Road to Success - Part 4: Success and Obedience

2/26/2015

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For the past two days, you’ve read posts by some amazing individuals, whom I get to call my friends, on the topic of success. Today, I’m sharing my own lessons learned about success throughout this journey.

Here's the Merriam-Webster dictionary's definition:
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Every time I read that definition, I ask myself, "Why?!?! Why do we value that?" 

My definition of success is simple and pretty contrary to popular belief.  For me, the true meaning of success can be found, not in the dictionary, but in Matthew 16:26 - 
“For what profit is it to a man if he gains the whole world and loses his own soul?” 
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According to this verse, gaining the whole world yields no profit if we lose our souls in the process. I'm sure you can think of at least one situation where a person has lost him or herself while trying to gain something else. We've watched celebrities tragically ruin their lives on the road to fame and fortune. We've heard of CEOs ending their lives when the pressure of power costs them their peace of mind. We've witnessed families destroyed by an individual's selfish ambition. Not to mention the countless people who have gotten caught up in the wrong crowd and have completely turned their backs on their beliefs in exchange for approval. 

A few years ago, I took step back from what I call Cultural Christianity (socially accepted beliefs based on history and church tradition rather than the Bible) and really examined the life of Jesus. As in the game of telephone, with passing time, we get so comfortable with our interpretations of a topic, that when we pause to compare our ideas to the original message, we often find ourselves way off.

Looking at the life of Jesus it’s clear to me that he was concerned about one thing: obedience. Jesus simply did what he was supposed to do. He was an obedient son. Today, we’ve strayed away from the simplicity of obedience and replaced it with an intense pressure to accomplish something amazing and be someone well-known. Jesus wasn’t like that. Jesus didn’t come here to chase a dream; he came to fulfill a mission.  It was his obedience, not his accolades or accomplishments, which got him exalted.

 "And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father." 
Phillipians 2:8-11
Obedience is not as glamorous as fame or fortune. It’s not as attractive as respect and power. The message of obedience isn't as popular as the message of dreaming big. Yet, obedience is the very behavior that will render us a success. 

The day I made the link between success and obedience, my life was radically changed. I surrendered my dreams and finally shut the voice inside my head saying, "you're a failure" and "you're not enough" once and for all. I relieved myself from the pressure of becoming something great and started living a satisfying, simple life. I didn't stop being driven, but I began to see the worth in the things I was already doing out of obedience. That revelation caused me to do those things better and with more passion. I may not have wealth, power or fame, but I have the ability to make a difference in someone's life. I don't look down on that any more. That's not something I've settled for while I wait for my big break, it's what I strive for. 

I encourage you to consider your own life. Have you bought into the lie that you're average because your life doesn't meet the Merriam-Webster's standard of success? Have you been stressing out by the pressure of having to figure out your big dream? What do you have at your hand to do right now? Are you doing it with passion and integrity? Don't allow the disappointment from comparing yourself to the dictionary's faulty definition to rob you from achieving true success
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8 Comments
Susan link
2/26/2015 06:32:02 am

You raise some great points here! Our church has grown so rapidly that now I know very few people there. I feel isolated, but on the positive side, it's given me an opportunity to really focus on Christ and what it means to worship at church -- not just to socialize.

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Debra link
3/2/2015 11:40:08 am

Dear Susan,
Thank you for visiting my blog and engaging in the conversation. I'm sorry you're feeling isolated at church. We go through seasons in the body of Christ and the best thing to do is what you're doing - look for the good that can come out of it. Reflecting and allowing God to work in us is a necessary part of our walk. I love your positive attitude! I will pray for you to find your place again soon. xo Debra

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Diana Elysee
2/26/2015 09:26:01 am

Obedience is better than sacrifice. When I took on the position to be an administrator, I asked God to show me leadership His way. God took me to the scripture Mark 10:45 which states that the Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve. This scripture leaders my leadership and I am learning daily how to be obedient even when I don't want to. This is easier said than done but God in His amazing power can lead and direct.

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Debra link
3/2/2015 10:44:33 am

Diana, YES! I love that verse about obedience. I also love your point about being a servant leader. I've been teaching my kids that very lesson. Another verse that comes to mind is to "Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added unto you." Matthew 6:33. When we do things His way, we excel at the things that matter. xo

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Jamie link
2/26/2015 11:09:26 am

Debra, this was a very thought provoking post. I loved it and totally agree with this. I need to work on this for myself and will be pondering this!! Thanks for sharing from your heart!

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Debra link
2/27/2015 04:10:52 am

Jamie,
It's important to continually reflect on God's word. Thank you for visiting my blog and taking time to join the discussion.

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Joivan
2/26/2015 11:23:15 pm

Hey my friend! I absolutely Love this. And I'm gonna use it for my teaching tomorrow! "The Power of obedience" Amazing. You are a talented writer.
This statement and choice walks me through life,"I don't look down on that any more. That's not something I've settled for while I wait for my big break, it's what I strive for."

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Debra link
2/27/2015 04:06:46 am

That's awesome! Thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving a comment, bro. I know God's going to use you tomorrow to speak to those young people. I pray their hearts will be open to this message.

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